I find myself flooded and overwhelmed with the multitude of venues that offer entertainment to us. How do we monitor all this information that is blasting its way into the lives of our families? Communication devices are many and are changing rapidly. Most include video and internet capabilities. It feels like a full time job just trying to keep up and filter this information.
There have been some recent developments that help families cope with the ever changing landscape. The Child Safe Viewing Act (S 602) was passed unanimously last year. It is a bill that encourages manufacturers to place advanced blocking and parental controls over multiple platforms. The challenge is that it is still up to the parents to stay vigilant and keep up with the ever changing devices. During my research for this article, I came across You Tube’s new parent controls. I was never able to figure out how to implement them. Perhaps you will have better luck.
http://help.youtube.com/support/youtube/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=147963
And that is just my point. Are we really expected to spend hours placing parent controls on all the varied multimedia platforms in our homes? How could we ever keep up?
Our children are taking part in a grand experiment. This is a new age. Electronics are embedded in their lives to a degree that is unprecedented. Think what it must have been like before there was television, radio even. Our engagement with the natural world was much deeper. While technology has made our lives easier in many ways, we may now be tipping the balance too far. The risk may be that we are not engaging our children enough in deep and meaningful ways. Although technology can be a powerful tool for gaining knowledge, it can also be used excessively for mindless entertainment that is full of stereotyped images of men and women.
My best advise for Parent controls? Unplug.
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We cover a diverse population with a focus on ADHD, Sensory Motor processing, child and adult anxiety, Postpartum depression, child therapy, couples counseling and individual therapy. At Marin Therapy Partners we work with clients to re-establish and bring forth the well being that is inherent in each individual. Marin Therapy Partners is comprised of independent psychotherapists whose specialties are grounded in theory and expertise. As psychotherapists we believe in the resilience of the human spirit and the capacity for healing and growth. Whether it is postpartum depression, child and family therapy, couples counseling,ortrauma, we work with clients to effect change and growth.
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Kate Brennan Marriage and Family Therapist
How I work
Sometimes, we choose therapy specifically as an opportunity for enhancing our awareness and enjoyment of life. Other times, something is out of balance in our lives and we seek assistance to regain harmony.
I work with clients to re-establish and bring forth the wellbeing that is inherent in each of us. I have found that this model gives clients more than just a solution to their problems. It enhances the quality of their lives.
I work with clients to re-establish and bring forth the wellbeing that is inherent in each of us. I have found that this model gives clients more than just a solution to their problems. It enhances the quality of their lives.
Clinical Areas Served
Adults, Children and families
• Depression/Anxiety
• Postpartum Depression
• Trauma
• Stress related disorders
• Mindful based stress reduction techniques
• Early Childhood development
• Temperament
• Attachment
• Sensory Processing
Services
• Individual sessions
• Phone sessions available inside Ca
• Speaking engagements
• Speaking engagements
• Some insurance accepted
• Sliding scale
About Me
As a 5th generation Marin resident, I have a deep sense of connection and appreciation for the natural beauty and community in which I call home. As an advocate for wellness and social change, I have worked for Kaiser Permanente as a parenting specialist, have lectured and taught throughout the county, and have focused on parenting and family health in my private practice. Championing local organizations as well as Global ones (Children of Uganda, Renewable Choice Energy, Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood, Habitat for Humanity and Glide Memorial Church), I believe that the choices we make impact our communities and the world at large.
M.A. Counseling, University Southern California.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 1993
Education
B.S. Psychology, University California, Berkeley.M.A. Counseling, University Southern California.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 1993
MFT 31122
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner Certification 2012
Emotional Freedom Technique
Mindful based relaxation and meditation training for children and adults
categories
- Anxiety and Trauma (4)
- Depression (2)
- media (2)
- parenting (9)
TRAUMA
Understanding Childhood Trauma
By Dr. Peter Levine
Although anyone – regardless of strength, capability, or experience – can be traumatized by a threatening event, those at greatest risk are infants and young children.
How to Tell If Your Child Has Been Traumatized
Any unusual behavior that begins shortly after a severely frightening episode may indicate that your child is traumatized. Compulsive, repetitive mannerisms – such as repeatedly zooming a toy car into a doll – are an almost sure sign of an unresolved reaction to a traumatic event. (The activity may or may not be a literal replay of the trauma.) Other signs of traumatic stress include persistent controlling behaviors, tantrums, uncontrollable rage attacks, hyperactivity, an exaggerated startle reflex, recurring night terrors or nightmares, thrashing while asleep, bedwetting, inability to concentrate in school, forgetfulness, excessive belligerence or shyness, withdrawal or fearfulness, extreme clinginess, and stomachaches or other ailments of unknown origin.
To find out whether an uncustomary behavior is indeed a traumatic reaction, try mentioning the frightening episode and see how your child responds. A traumatized child will not want to be reminded of the predisposing event – or conversely, once reminded, will become excited, or fearful and unable to stop talking about it. A traumatized child may also respond with silence.
If you have questions or would like to know more about the treatment of trauma call 415 453-1402 or email kate@kebrennan.com.
For further reading
Trauma Through A Child’s Eyes by Dr. Peter Levine and Maggie Kline
Our Approach
The Therapeutic Process
At Marin Therapy Partners it is our belief that we all have an inherent inner drive to grow, heal, and evolve wired deep within our brains. Through the therapy process, crises, difficulties and challenges become doorways to transformation as we access this powerful inner force. We now know that the brain can actually re-wire itself. We have great faith in the therapeutic process and know from experience that healing and change are truly possible. Some of the modalities we work with include attachment based theories, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Somatic Experiencing Technique, EMDR and Mindfulness. We invite you to check our articles section where we have included material on these topics for further reading at www.marintherapypartners.com
Resources/links
You and your Child’s Health - Dr. Sue Johnson Pediatrician
http://www.youandyourchildshealth.org/youandyourchildshealth/articles.html
Sensory Processing Disorder Foundation - research and education on SPD
Dan Siegal – Neuroscience of attachment. Through the use of MRI’s Dr. Siegal demonstrates how attachment, meditation and effective psychotherapy all tap into the brains capacity to create new neural pathways. Author of Parenting From the Inside Out – how our attachments with our children create resiliency.
Sensory Processing Disorder -Carol Stock Kranowitz author of Out of Synch Child.
Somatic Experiencing - website for SE.
SE supports people in accessing their innate resiliency and their inherent capacity to rebound and recover from overwhelming experiences.
http://www.traumahealing.com/somatic-experiencing/index.html
Campaign for a Commercial Free Childhood
CCFC works for the rights of children to grow up—and the freedom for parents to raise them—without being undermined by commercial interests. http://www.commercialfreechildhood.org
Common Sense Media
Dedicated to helping families make the best media choices for their kids. www.commonsensemedia.org
Media Education Foundation
A nonprofit educational organization devoted to media research and resources to aid educators and others in fostering analytical media literacy. www.mediaed.org
Hand in Hand
A resource for parents to help build close connections with their children.
Books
Hold onto your child- Gordon Nuefeld
The pivotal importance of children's relationships to those responsible for them and the devastating impact in today's society of competing attachments from peers.
Last child in the woods- Richard Louv This is the first book to bring together a new and growing body of research indicating that direct exposure to nature is essential for healthy childhood development.
The other parent-Jim Steyer founder of Common Sense Media. The Inside Story of the Media's Effect on Our Children
The end of Solitude- William Deresiewicz
http://chronicle.com/article/The-End-of-Solitude/3708